This photo was taken June 2, 2011 right after my first court appearance with my son’s father. It was an emotional experience and I was ready to shed it all literally. I did my big chop on this day and felt so liberated. Most of my life I have strived for perfection in grades, in partners, in all things. My unplanned pregnancy was one of the first steps off course I took. It took a long time to forgive myself and work on what broken areas of my life led me down that path.
I’m not perfect and even if on the outside everything looks well, if I’m broken internally none of that matters.
Work on that internal healing so you can break generational curses…so you don’t create generational barriers for your children.
Pause on perfection and focus on real healing.